What is your scariest catcalling experience?

I used to waitress in the East Village, and I’d get out at like two or three, and a young man got right up in front of me, and was kind of like, “hey beautiful”, and then he grabbed my hand. That’s probably the freakiest one. No physical contact please. 

How often do you get catcalled?

I would say around three to four times a week, still, but not as much as when I was younger. Then again, when I was younger I was walking around a lot more, so I don’t know if that has anything to do with it. 

How do you feel when you get catcalled?

Now I’m just mad. I just think it’s gross. And also, sort of, mad at myself because I want to say something back but I don’t want to put myself in danger, or I can’t think of a retort fast enough. 

What do you want people to know about catcalling?

It’s not flattering. And it can just ruin someone’s day. And it can get scary, and it’s harassment. I want them to think about women in their lives. Like if someone was saying this to their mother and sisters and daughters. 

Why do you think people catcall?

 I think it’s about intimidation, and that it’s a power thing. Like they know they shouldn’t be doing it, but they get a kick out of it. 

Why do you think catcalling has become so normalized?

I think the power thing doesn’t really work in our favor. There is more of a way for them to get away with it. We were sort of taught that they were allowed to get away with it. And they know they can get away with it.